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Dealing with Grief and Loss | Struggling With Our Faith In God #couple
Grief and loss impacted so many areas of our life from our marriage to our spiritual walk to our personal understanding of ourselves. Listen to our conversation as we explore all those facets of life during the time we lost our child.
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Elijah Is One | 1st Birthday Party | Sibling Annual Tug of War
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We can't believe our little man is 1 Year Old!! Already? It feels like yesterday he was born in our bedroom. Watch our celebration for Elijah and a lot of family fun. And yes, we have an Annual Sibling Tug of War Rivalry!
Bringing Single Friends Around a Married Man | Our Best Friend Does Not Agree @Nae2Curly
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We sat down with our best friend, Janae, and talked about some of the comments we got from a previous video. Should she be around Brian as a single woman when he's married? What does friendship between a single woman and a married woman look like? Let's talk about what healthy adult friendships look like. Would love to hear your thoughts.
Family Outing with the Cousins!! | My Brother Is A Whole Dad Now
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We're taking all the Cole Cousins to the Zoo! This is the first big outing we have gone on with Baby Asher and we were so hype! Definitely saw some bears tackling each other as well.
Our Response to Ashely Madison Documentary | What We Would Do If Our Spouse Cheated
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We're discussing some heavy-hitting topics today: what we would do if our spouse cheated, Christian influencers exposed, singles vs married temptation. We would love to hear your thoughts on all this and what you got from it.
Did Kendrick and Drake Beef Cause Colorism Issues | Are Our Kids Black or White?
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How we will teach our kids about their identity, how Colorism presents itself today, is it confusing as a biracial kid
Struggling HARD |First Road Trip Just Family !
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This was such a fun time with family ! 🤎 I can’t believe we did it! Let us know what you think!
HELP US!! Support in Postpartum | The Struggle as Parents
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Jealousy and comparison, postpartum support vs independence, mental health as parents, millennial parents struggling
OUR FIRST GUEST!!! Postpartum Depression and Navigating Marital Challenges w/ Josh and Savannah
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OUR FIRST GUEST!!! Postpartum Depression and Navigating Marital Challenges w/ Josh and Savannah
Dispelling Interracial Myths | Things People Don't Want To Talk About
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Dispelling Interracial Myths | Things People Don't Want To Talk About
Meeting Some New Friends | Dealing With Racism
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Meeting Some New Friends | Dealing With Racism
Our Journey Of Intimacy | Do I Let My Single Friends Around My Husband?
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Our Journey Of Intimacy | Do I Let My Single Friends Around My Husband?
Everything Happened On This Trip! | Colorado Vlog Pt 1
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Everything Happened On This Trip! | Colorado Vlog Pt 1
Made the Wrong Decision With Our Kids | Failed Season | Learning to Heal
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Made the Wrong Decision With Our Kids | Failed Season | Learning to Heal
Let's Get Deep FIRST EPISODE!!! | Things We Never Talked About | Lexi’s Perspective On Dating
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Let's Get Deep FIRST EPISODE!!! | Things We Never Talked About | Lexi’s Perspective On Dating
Almost Missed Our Flight For The First Time | In Our Favorite City
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Almost Missed Our Flight For The First Time | In Our Favorite City
Are We Working More Now?! | Crazy Day 😩
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Are We Working More Now?! | Crazy Day 😩
A Real Day In The Life | Everything Is Changing!
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A Real Day In The Life | Everything Is Changing!
What Does Retired Life Look Like For Us?! | Some Exciting News!
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What Does Retired Life Look Like For Us?! | Some Exciting News!
Part 1: Suprising My Husband | Am I A Red Flag ?! 👀
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Part 1: Suprising My Husband | Am I A Red Flag ?! 👀
Vlogmas | Showing Elijah Our Weird Tradition!
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Vlogmas | Showing Elijah Our Weird Tradition!
Brian’s First Being Alone With The Kids | Lexi’s First Trip Alone !!
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Brian’s First Being Alone With The Kids | Lexi’s First Trip Alone !!
Our First Full Family Trip | A True Road Trip 😭👀
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Our First Full Family Trip | A True Road Trip 😭👀
Traveling With Elijah For The First Time 👀!!
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Traveling With Elijah For The First Time 👀!!
First Time Away From The Kids😭 | Travel Vlog
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First Time Away From The Kids😭 | Travel Vlog
Meet Elijah | DITL With Two 👀
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Meet Elijah | DITL With Two 👀
Our 2nd Unmedicated Home Birth | Elijah's Birth Story
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Our 2nd Unmedicated Home Birth | Elijah's Birth Story
Get To Know Lexi's Friends | Baby Shower Prep #teddyblake
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Get To Know Lexi's Friends | Baby Shower Prep #teddyblake
We Were Invited To The White House!
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We Were Invited To The White House!

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @user-uf1pv1gr4f
    @user-uf1pv1gr4f 29 хвилин тому

    Amazing how she took you from dorky to sexy😮

  • @MrsC-zz3ui
    @MrsC-zz3ui Годину тому

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @krixttysimon2705
    @krixttysimon2705 2 години тому

  • @Sbro901
    @Sbro901 10 годин тому

    Oh so lovely you guys. I’ve gleaned such richness from this conversation. On a lighter note, Lexi, I hope you start feeling the Kilimanjaro vibe soon. It was on my bucket list to have done by now but the opportunity isn’t forthcoming and that’s ok. I’ll be praying for an an amazing time for you guys.❤

  • @AMacks-pi9yv
    @AMacks-pi9yv 11 годин тому

    😂love them!

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 12 годин тому

    Love your channel ❤

  • @pameladavis895
    @pameladavis895 14 годин тому

    Interesting conversation! Please read the book of Job! Read it slowly! What I'm not hearing you say is that GOD is sovereign period! Spend time in the first two chapters. After reading chapters 3-31, read Elihu's speech before GOD speaks to Job. Chapter 38 reminds Job, "Where was thou when..." GOD is truly sovereign!

  • @annascott2k
    @annascott2k 14 годин тому

    I grew up in the “it didn’t work of because you didn’t have faith”/ “you’re entitled to a blessed life” type of thinking. If I had still been there when I lost my dad, I’d probably be an atheist now lol. This was a great watch, thank you for sharing! 🔥

  • @andreavfirst
    @andreavfirst 15 годин тому

    I think sometimes people DO need someone like Brian, to NOT sit in it for too long. You guys are a great Balance! So don't beat yourself up too much Brian!

  • @Shallewa
    @Shallewa 15 годин тому

    Amazing family 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶

  • @RashetaCannon
    @RashetaCannon 16 годин тому

    “When tragedy hits then the truth about what you really feel about God is revealed”🙌🏽 THIS ‼️

  • @oneandonlychichimadu
    @oneandonlychichimadu 18 годин тому

    I just want to say Brian and Lexi thank you for your transparency. And I don't know if you realized what a gift you have in communication. But the way you were able to verbalize your feeling, thought process, and view of your situation in such a clear way is such a blessing. You are helping people who do not know how to put in words their feelings, language to help them. Me being one of them. Thank you.❤

    • @cathirodrigo2933
      @cathirodrigo2933 14 годин тому

      AMEN 🙌🏻 all that & SO much more!! ❤❤❤

  • @beverlycarter5382
    @beverlycarter5382 18 годин тому

    This is a very good conversation; grief and loss is a part of life that in all honesty no one wants to deal with. I totally understand how she felt because I had four miscarriages and could not understand why God would not let me carry my babies full term. I prayed and tried to understand, I thought my faith was strong enough to make this work but God had other plans which at the time I did not understand. I'm glad she is discussing this because miscarriages can have a huge mental as well as physical effect on your life. Thank God He understands us better than we do ourselves and He also knows what is best for us. Our trials are test to help us grow in faith. Stay strong and faithful, you were blessed with two beautiful children.

  • @sherryp7408
    @sherryp7408 18 годин тому

    Before 5 minutes and was hitting the like. ❤

  • @dmp7252
    @dmp7252 18 годин тому

    Yessssss it most definitely 👍 is in site for me.

  • @MariniFacey
    @MariniFacey 18 годин тому

    This is a beautiful, true conversation and reminds me of how Hannah was poorly treated in the bible by the "people of God" around her. And in general this conversation is uplifting to show people the importance of not putting their humanness, well-meaning words on things that are sacred and unknown...

  • @jillstreet8364
    @jillstreet8364 19 годин тому

    🥹💓💓

  • @denisedean2446
    @denisedean2446 19 годин тому

    That whole year flew by. Lol Lexi is so competitive.

  • @sandytx7661
    @sandytx7661 19 годин тому

    Yessssss, AMEN AND AMEN🙏🏼♥️

  • @sandytx7661
    @sandytx7661 19 годин тому

    Yessssss, AMEN AND AMEN🙏🏼♥️

  • @janicelewis6329
    @janicelewis6329 19 годин тому

    I give God the Glory that all the difficulties or during your low points in your life, you still had enough faith to believe that God was still in charge of your life and that he loves you. I also thank God that you have a praying spouse which supports you .

  • @deb5thmitch
    @deb5thmitch 19 годин тому

    Read the book by E G White, “The Great Controversy”. If someone tells you not to that is why you should.

  • @sheliad1265
    @sheliad1265 19 годин тому

    Very good convo. Four years later and I'm still learning to deal with grief

  • @deb5thmitch
    @deb5thmitch 19 годин тому

    If God readily gave us everything we asked for we wouldn’t need faith. “Take up your CROSS and follow me”. Job did it, Abram did it, Naomi did it, on and, on and on. Who is God? Jesus told the disciples to enter he boat and go to the other side. They apparently didn’t have faith in him as Lord and Savior. When the storm came they freaked out because he was asleep in the back of the boat. Remember, master do you care the we are perishing. JESUS WAS IN THE BOAT❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️ True faith is ALIVE! God is not a man that He could lie. He is not a prosperity seeker He is a heart changing seeker. His thoughts are not our thoughts, his ways are not our ways. Things are about to change in this world that will seal you in Christ or seal you with the anti-christ. Feelings are the worst indicator of our relationship with God. Understanding His will in making you like Him. His commandment are His character. When we truly behold him we shall be changed into his likeness in character. That’s the only thing we can take into heaven. Abide in me …,,

  • @jeanniehyde8090
    @jeanniehyde8090 19 годин тому

    This is Deep 🙌🏾 very powerful reminder of our relationship with GOD🙏🏽💕 Thank you both gorgeous people 🤗😘x I love the Perrys 🤗🥰also x

  • @deb5thmitch
    @deb5thmitch 19 годин тому

    If God readily gave us everything we asked for we wouldn’t need faith. “Take up your CROSS and follow me”. Job did it, Abram did it, Naomi did it, on and, on and on. Who is God? Jesus told the disciples to enter he boat and go to the other side. They apparently didn’t have faith in him as Lord and Savior. When the storm came they freaked out because he was asleep in the back of the boat. Remember, master do you care the we are perishing. JESUS WAS IN THE BOAT❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️ True faith is ALIVE! God is not a man that He could lie. He is not a prosperity seeker He is a heart changing seeker. His thoughts are not our thoughts, his ways are not our ways. Things are about to change in this world that will seal you in Christ or seal you with the anti-christ. Feelings are the worst indicator of our relationship with God. Understanding His will in making you like Him. His commandment are His character. When we truly behold him we shall be changed into his likeness in character. That’s the only thing we can take into heaven. Abide in me …,,

  • @shirleyhardnett6067
    @shirleyhardnett6067 20 годин тому

    Beautiful lovely couple. I love watching your video

  • @joycewilliams1017
    @joycewilliams1017 20 годин тому

    Good thing it's not about the feelings. That's a very immature way to think.

  • @rozied2415
    @rozied2415 22 години тому

    True lover doesn't fade with time it gets a whole lot better💕🙏🏽💕💕💕💕😊

  • @jaclynns.jungle
    @jaclynns.jungle День тому

    Always did this growing up too. My mom would have us give up something we loved ❤

  • @ashawthing0520
    @ashawthing0520 День тому

    LOL😂

  • @traderoex1
    @traderoex1 День тому

    I can't even imagine having a relationship like this on my side of the fence.. 😢

  • @Empress-lala7jy
    @Empress-lala7jy День тому

    Beautiful 😍

  • @JeaneMicheleVelosoSantos-rn2co

    amen ♥️ 🙏🏿 ክልቴኹም ካልእ ሰብ ኣብ ፍቅርኹም ጣልቃ ክኣቱ ፈጺምኩም ኣይትፈቅዱን፣ ምስ እግዚኣብሔር ውን ጽናሕ ኣሜን።

  • @JeaneMicheleVelosoSantos-rn2co

    ጽቡቓት ኢኺ መጻምድቲ 💑 እግዚኣብሄር መዓልታዊ ይባርኽኩም,, ምስ ደቅኹም ድማ ኩሉ ግዜ ሓቢርኩም ❤ ❤ ክትቅጽሉ ይግበረልኩም

  • @BoricuaGirl69
    @BoricuaGirl69 День тому

    Keep in mind that a lot of the women on the website were fake profiles and bots so the number of members on the site is an exaggeration.

  • @user-zh7hu6yr8e
    @user-zh7hu6yr8e День тому

    Kool like a cucumber ❤❤❤

  • @amberl.8245
    @amberl.8245 День тому

    Ah yes, the package routine. Our packages have my hubby’s name on them. He casually sits them by the door to open them later. 👀 the entryway gets cleaned as he plays his game. Later he glances at the entryway like he got Deja vu about something he forgot as I watch. He continues on with his game. 😌 I check the time on my wrist as I adjust my fancy new Apple Watch band and go take his favorite guilt muffins that I baked him out of the oven.

  • @beatrixjansen6297
    @beatrixjansen6297 День тому

    Wow. The two of you were meant to be together. What a great relationship . Hope that many young people would use you as an example to build a relationship build on true love ,understanding, respect and commitment. I enjoy your videos so much. May God keep blessing you. What a wonderful example you are for your childeren,🥰🥰🥰

  • @SerenadasPen
    @SerenadasPen День тому

    OMG! SILLY

  • @SerenadasPen
    @SerenadasPen День тому

    I loooovvvveee so muuuccch! He Is A Ray of Sunlight! And Love His Sister's Attachment To Him.

  • @sparklekpadeh3382
    @sparklekpadeh3382 День тому

    Lol I have 5 going on 6 velcro babies. They heavy as all get out but it's ok, though we're all loved.

  • @tubechic71
    @tubechic71 День тому

    Saw them in Target in a city near my house, they are just as fly in person. I just admired from afar and kept it moving.

  • @AnnaQuirky
    @AnnaQuirky День тому

    Brother got himself a Queen

  • @lifeexplorerchannel4865
    @lifeexplorerchannel4865 2 дні тому

    No way he is the same guy

  • @anaflavia6691
    @anaflavia6691 2 дні тому

    So beautiful kid!

  • @shaliniskumar010
    @shaliniskumar010 2 дні тому

    Oneness ❤

  • @fatayatiarief2015
    @fatayatiarief2015 2 дні тому

    Feeling does will fade away. That is why we need to find a partner with the same vision and value in life to hold each other and look after the feeling together

  • @LauryDepp
    @LauryDepp 2 дні тому

    She is like her daddy.

  • @MiSunderstood2890
    @MiSunderstood2890 2 дні тому

    It’s the hat for me!